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BURNING THE BRIDGES TO YOUR PAST

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When growing up, I  have often heard the good advice, “Don’t burn the bridges behind you, in case you have to go back.” The advice meant that if you were quitting a job, leave under good circumstances, in case you had to work there again or if they had to give you a reference. If it was the end of the school year, it would be wise to leave in good standing with all the students in case you had to share classes with them next year. If you were moving out of the neighborhood, it would be good to leave a good impression with your neighbors rather than leaving them with a bad one of you. You never knew if you would bump into them again. I was taught to always try to keep the door open, so that you could always go back or be welcomed if you had to return.   It is good advice – in most cases. One exception is when it applies to living the Christian life. When a person solely trusts Christ for his salvation, he is born again into the family of God. H...

DOING YOUR IT PURPOSE

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Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your lif e. Desire, Secret to every mans career , Not Education , Not being Born with Hidden Talents But Desire  The commonly referred to "game of life" is not a game but a reality. Find a job that you love and you'll add five days to your week. For real. Create your own adult playground! Often, ones life can feel really feel like a game though. A game of Hide and Seek. One can feel like they are hiding from themselves and each other by not not doing the things they truly desire within hearts. We can all find ourselves occupying this place through the course of our lives. Perhaps we are in a field of work that we have strived for, even though we end up striving for more What I'd recommend and I'd suggest this to anyone, in any field, is to write a list of your strengths and your weaknesses. In that list of strengths I don't want you to write things like: "I'm a good person",...

I AM BEAUTIFUL CAMPAIGN

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" I am beautiful and i know it" Every woman should be able to say this without fear. This campaign aims at having every woman  say this without fear or prejudice. Most Ladies do not think of themselves, they expect other people, especially the men in their lives to show them that they are beautiful. Women are made differently, irregardless of their size and beauty, race  or even color. we have Big women who society has called "Fat' slim women who are told either they should eat more  or they look sick. Truth is if a Lady  feels beautiful, she can do anything, and conquer the world. Empowering the Girl Child, is the best way to Empower The Nation. When you invest in girls, the whole world benefits. If a girl has enough to eat, a safe environment, and an education, she’ll work to raise the standard of living for herself, her family and her community. And in time, she can even strengthen the economy of her entire country. But also about the incredible power the...

ARE YOU SETTLING FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE?

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The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for." Maureen Dowd Every day, people settle for less than they deserve. They are only partially living or at best living a partial life. Every human being has the potential for greatness. Back in my early teenies  (4years ago) I was challenged by a mentor of mine to achieve a certain target in my life. This man believed in me and considered that within the next 5 years, I had the capability to raise my standard of living and income, to a level way beyond what I was presently achieving. I accepted the challenge and believed that the target set for me, was within my reach. Shortly afterwards we lost touch. It was around 3 years later, by chance I bumped into my old mentor. He was glad to see me. Within 10 minutes of meeting me again he said “how are you doing with regards to the target we set some years ago?” A little stunned that he had remembered, I replied in a sheepish voice ...

ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO GET STARTED

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I think you bring up a point that folks are faced with time and time again. I always share the story of a guy i know . He's been an accountant for almost 15 years, and he's always been apathetic to his work and has always told me he's just "working to retire". When I asked him why he doesn't quit and do something else, his response was that he's been doing what he does for so long, and it just "is what it is," and that he doesn't know what else he would do. Believe me, I can understand the sentiment, and it's hard to get into something new when you've been doing the same old thing for so long. But it was this conversation that inspired me and continues to motivate me to not waste a moment that I have to work on doing what I really WANT to be (and should be) doing. It's kept me humble and active in continuing to build my career  and establish myself professionally as a Brand The best thing I can say is that you...

HAVE YOU FOUND YOURSELF

One of the biggest challenges of our generation is knowing what our purpose is and how to achieve our dreams.   I have seen other people who do not have a clear path of what they would do if they won a million dollars. People who procrastinate and are always anxious because they are not sure of the future. One day you are excited about this new idea you’re pursuing and the next day you’re not sure if it is what you want.  Your life goes in phases that come and end as fast as a flame on a matchstick. First there is the ‘I need to buy land phase’, then comes the ‘I need to start saving phase’ and today you’re on the ‘I need to start a business’ phase and the cycle never ends. I’ve heard people say that you are always in the path that God wants you to be and I am beginning to believe this   Why? Because if this is where He wants me to be, i am happy doing what i love doing best   I have seen many of our parents live their lives in simplicity and medio...

BE YOUR OWN PERSONAL BRAND

To increase your personal success, you need to actively take control of managing your personal brand For a long time, branding was only associated with businesses and companies. But in the current world, especially with the myriad of online social platforms, personal branding has become just as important. What is personal branding? In simple terms, it is making yourself stand out from the crowd to showcase your uniqueness. It involves how you manage others’ perceptions of you and influence how they think of you. Having a strong, vibrant and clear personal brand is something you need to actively cultivate in your quest for personal success. Effective personal branding has played a very big part in the accomplishments of the world’s most successful people such as Oprah Winfrey, Michael Jordan, Bill Gates, Richard Branson and many others. Many people are not conscious of the fact that they have a brand, hence they don’t put much effort in managing and positioning it strategically and e...